How often are you happy?

Just a thought to add to my topic about healthy relationships....How often are you happy in your relationship? If your answer isn't everyday...then it may be time to really think about things and either fix them or get out. You don't have to be happy all day everyday but you need to be happy everyday. Relationships are hard, they take work but if you spend more time trying to make one work rather than actually being in one...it's not worth it.

I have a friend who is dealing with relationship problems and it's so hard because being her friend i want to swoop in and save her from any sadness and pain.  It's a hard situation because there is a lot of game playing, a lot of empty promises and still a lot of baggage from the past that aren't being dealt with. My friend is incredibly strong and i think she is so amazing for trying so hard to make things work. I just hate seeing her when she's not getting the same kind of respect in return.

You have to work at relationships everyday, but you shouldn't have to work at the relationship to make it work everyday....if that even makes sense. If you spending more time trying to have a relationships rather than actually having one...it's not healthy and it's time to get out. So, i ask again.....How often are you happy??